One of the main reasons of people being unhappy is that ” things dont go the way they want them to go” which makes them frustrated , angry and dissappointed .
As it been said various times Nothing is constant but change!
But we have programmed ourselves to resist change and keep things Consistent….. to be safe!!!
One of the keys to real happiness is Flexibililty !!
The person who is most flexible in behaviour is the one who is most likely to be happy in comparison to the one who wants to keep things in control!!
The reality is that there is only one thing we can control…
And that is…
OUR OWN REACTION!!!
and being flexible really helps in managing that reaction…
So , Practice being flexible when things dont go your way saying to yourself ” Ok , What can i learn from this situation that will help me achieve my desired outcome?” and trust that your smart mind will learn what is needs to learn inorder for you to get the results you want!!
Good luck!
Until next time…
Love , Laugh and BE HAPPY!!


AWESOME…Very useful. See, life is like a car in variable weather. Sometimes its nice and shiny and the road is clean so its easy to drive through. Sometimes its raining, theres mud and loads of obstacles, so you have to be patient and drive with caution. And when theres snow and ice, theres nothing you can do but hope to God that you’ll make it out (and hopefully you WILL). Sooo….drive your car when you can but when you can’t just breath in…..and let out the soothing breath to liberate you from anxiety.
I hate changes and after reading this post I think I need to get out of the comfort zone when required by the circumstances and be more flexible in order to be happy!!
Great post Sidra – reminds me that young children usually get what they want because they tend to be more flexible in asking for what they want than adults are at saying ‘No’.
What will it take for me to be as flexible as child?
Great post Sidra – reminds me that young children usually get what they want because they tend to be more flexible in asking for what they want than adults are at saying ‘No’.
What will it take for me to be as flexible as child?
Thanks for taking some time out and leaving comments.. I really appreciate it!
Great post Sidra – reminds me that young children usually get what they want because they tend to be more flexible in asking for what they want than adults are at saying ‘No’.
What will it take for me to be as flexible as child?
I hate changes and after reading this post I think I need to get out of the comfort zone when required by the circumstances and be more flexible in order to be happy!!
AWESOME…Very useful. See, life is like a car in variable weather. Sometimes its nice and shiny and the road is clean so its easy to drive through. Sometimes its raining, theres mud and loads of obstacles, so you have to be patient and drive with caution. And when theres snow and ice, theres nothing you can do but hope to God that you’ll make it out (and hopefully you WILL). Sooo….drive your car when you can but when you can’t just breath in…..and let out the soothing breath to liberate you from anxiety.
AWESOME…Very useful. See, life is like a car in variable weather. Sometimes its nice and shiny and the road is clean so its easy to drive through. Sometimes its raining, theres mud and loads of obstacles, so you have to be patient and drive with caution. And when theres snow and ice, theres nothing you can do but hope to God that you’ll make it out (and hopefully you WILL). Sooo….drive your car when you can but when you can’t just breath in…..and let out the soothing breath to liberate you from anxiety.
Thanks for taking some time out and leaving comments.. I really appreciate it!
Great post Sidra – reminds me that young children usually get what they want because they tend to be more flexible in asking for what they want than adults are at saying ‘No’.
What will it take for me to be as flexible as child?
Great post Sidra – reminds me that young children usually get what they want because they tend to be more flexible in asking for what they want than adults are at saying ‘No’.
What will it take for me to be as flexible as child?
Thanks for taking some time out and leaving comments.. I really appreciate it!
Great post Sidra – reminds me that young children usually get what they want because they tend to be more flexible in asking for what they want than adults are at saying ‘No’.
What will it take for me to be as flexible as child?
I hate changes and after reading this post I think I need to get out of the comfort zone when required by the circumstances and be more flexible in order to be happy!!
Great post Sidra – reminds me that young children usually get what they want because they tend to be more flexible in asking for what they want than adults are at saying ‘No’.
What will it take for me to be as flexible as child?
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